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Sabi finally visits Sabarimala

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One day in the year 2020 when I was 4 years old I was browsing through Amazon Prime Video for cartoons. Then I came across a cartoon which was about Swami Ayyappa. l admired him and watched it around 50 times. I made my nana nani watch it around 10 times.

For months now, Sabi has built a connection with Swami Ayyaapan, the revered deity of Sabarimala, Kerala. She first discovered him via a cartoon on ‘Amazon Prime Video.’ In the movie, a young boy Manikandan went on to become Swami Ayyaapa. Sabi immediately deeply related to him because:

  • Manikandan was a young child, like Sabi.
  • Manikandan was on a journey of learning and practiced martial arts with his guru. Sabi too is learning Seido Karate from her guru – Kiyoshi Hardeep.
  • Manikandan did not have superhero powers. He was simply a dedicated human being who transformed into Swami Ayyappan through persistent effort.

It was not possible for us to take Sabi to Sabarimala pilgrimage. We took Sabi to an Ayyaapan temple (Sree Dharmasaastha Temple) in Saket, Delhi.

Sabi being Sabi, decided to wear her Gujarati Shreenathji clothes and carried a bow and arrow to the temple.

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When I started school at 6, I wanted to buy a tiger and ride it to school. In the year 2022 our family went on a road trip. In that trip I sat in the car like Ayyappa with my seatbelt on. Like Swami Ayyappa I was wearing dhotis nearly every day in that road trip.

Since that day I wanted to go to Sabarimala and my dad promised me that he would arrage for it. Then finaly my dad arranged for it in the year 2025 when I was almost 9 years old. There is a vrath that you have to do before going to Sabarimala. In that vrath you have to bathe with cold water, sleep on the floor, stop eating eggs, walk barefoot and eat very simple food. We tried our best to do tha vrath but we were not able to do it fully. I stopped eating eggs and secretly started bathing with cold water without telling my mom. I also stopped eating outside food, Like Naturals icecream and California Burrito.

When the time came for the trip we had to pack our bags and go. This was the first trip in which I was going with my father but without my mother so we prepared for it as much as we could.

Preparation

  • Hair: My hair is extremely curly, wavvy and unmanageable. We decided to cut my hair to make it manegeable and easy to comb and tie. My dad did not know how to tie and comb my hair so I had to do it by myself. Then my mom oiled up my hair and packed it with oil so that it could atleast stay for a few days. We carried all kinds of asscesories like clips, comb and scrunchies.
  • Clothes: It was a tradition of Kerela that girls should wear frocks. Hence my mother bought some frocks for me. I am not very used to dresses so this is the first time I have had a collection of dresses! My dad bought some Lungi’s for himself too.
  • Things that comforted me: I took my favourite blanket whoose fragrence I love.
  • Entertainment:  I carried 2 books. Ones name is The Epoch Of Nanasaheb Peshwa and the seconds is The Unstoppable Us volume 2. 
  • Toiletries: We carried wetwipes, tissuepaper, soap and towels as the washrooms were dirty and were not at all maintained.

I was about to finish the book The Epoch Of Nanasaheb Peshwa. To celebrate the completion of the book my parents took me to the temple Trumbakeshwar near Nashik. This temple was built by Nanasaheb Peshwa and is still there. 

We then left Nashik and travelled to Mumbai where my nana nani live. We stayed  nana nani’s house till we had to meet up with our gang. Then when the time came to leave we left and met with our gang.


Day 1

From nana nani house to Chembur

I woke up at 7:00 am and started to get ready to go meet the Sabarimala gang. Dad and me left at 8 :15 a.m. Then we travelled from nana and nanis house to Chembur by taxi. It took us 2 hrs to reach Chembur. 

My dad first told me to observe Mumbai. I saw how this city is not redeemable, there was waste everywhere, there were rugged roads and the car was getting effected. The tall buildings but small houses packed many people into a small space and the more people living there meant more traffic. Next I saw that most houses had dish TV. 

At Guruswami’s House

Introducing Guruswami

Soon we reached Guruswami’s house. I walked into his home and saw an old man with white hair, a scruffy beard and body. He looked grumpy and sleepy.  Guruswami is a senior who guides us and helps us do the pooja properly. He has gone to Sabrimala around 50 times so he is the most expierienced. Sabrimala used to be a dangerous place so had to have a senior person with you that is why there is a Guruswami. There I felt nervous as  Guruswami could get grumpy as I had once heard “dont ask questions to old men just blindly follow”.

He spoke very fast Hindi so it is hard to understand him but he keeps making hand gestures and keeps grunting so that makes it easier to understand what he is saying.

Guruswami’s temple was very beautiful! It is covered by photos of bhagwan on both the walls. It looked like it was used everyday and It was alive and lively.  

Guruswamis wife was cleaning flowers. I went over to her and helped her.

Guruswami gets shocked

First Guruswami asked us to put our bags in a corner. Next we were asked to wash our feet and hands. Then Guruswami asked us for our malas. Dad told him that Srinivas was to bring the malas. Guruswami got shocked and he stuck his toungue out and put his hand to it. Ideally we should have worn the malas at the start of the vratam.

He led us to his temple. He took the mala hanging from the photo of Ayyappa and gave it to dad and sang a mantra. He repeated the same with me but with a mala from Krishna. He had been praying to these malas for the last six months. Hence these malas were auspicious. 

Guruswami serves us a feast for a breakfast

I thought we had to fast  as whenever jains do religios things they fast. But  Guruswami had other plans. He served us a humungous breakfast with idli, sambar, vada, rice, chutney, payasam and shiro.

Guruswami asked me, “coffee peyega”. I replied, “nahi mein coffee nahi peti”. So Guruswami said, “toh pani peyo”

Preparing for the initiation pooja

Soon Srinivas sister and niece arrived. They were very nice to me. 

Together we started preparing for the pooja. Coconuts have 3 eyes at the bottom. I knew it from building monkey masks.

We often go to Carnatic Cafe, where they serve ice cream in coconut shells. Sabi started collecting the shells and tried to turn them into “Monkey Masks” wall hangings. However, it was difficult to collect enough shells, as she couldn’t simply buy ice cream for the shells alone. Additionally, carving each mask took 6-8 hours. As a result, the masks were not very practical.

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Guruswami would find the one eye that was soft and then he would ask us to pierce a hole in that eye and pour their water out in a bowl. We made sure no water was left and corked the hole in the coconut. 

Next I sat with Srinivas niece and we started writing Om on the irumadi bags. The Irumadi is the bag of offerings that we give to Ayyapa. The front part is for Ayyappa and the back is for you.

The gang arrives

Slowly steadily the gang arrived. First came elder brother Pranad. He was strict and focused. Following him came goofy Mahaksh. He had a bony structure. The environment truly turned goofy with his presence. I looked at my dad and smiled. Finally came Srinivas with his daughter Pradnya. She looked adorable yet timid like my younger sister Vasu. Looking at the gang I knew we would have a fun time!

Along with Srinivas and my dad, two more dads came. One was Pranads father Kumar. The second was Mahakshs dad Venkat.

The initiation pooja

By now we were already getting late. So Guruswami grunted something and everyone started preparing for the pooja. 

One by one Guruswami did pooja for each person. He sang some mantras and then we had to pour ghee inside the coconut we had hollowed out. Then we put the cork back and put it inside of our irumadi bag, pour rice inside another bag which was smalller, put that small bag inside the irumadi bag with 2 coconuts  at the back side of the bag. 

Srinivas , Srinivas’s sister and dad all put 3 handfulls of rice  in my bag. This was usually only for family members and they treated me like a family member. That was very nice of them. 

As the pooja happened for everyone, we had to stand near by and sing Swamiye Sharanam Ayyappa. During this time Pradnya and I stood next to each other.

This is the mantra of the offerings that we spoke:

ashtadasham mahasaaram sasthru darshana dayakam
Vidhitham shudham utkrishtam Sannidhaanam namamyaham
Manasa karmana Vaacha Shraddhaya bhaktya Jagatguru 
uktasya deva karyaartham puraayan Kapilagrutham
Bhootanatha Sadhananda Sarva Bhutha dayabara
Raksha Raksha maha baaho Shastre tubhyam namo namaha

The Marathas make an entry

Immediately after the pooja I took Pradnya outside and gave her the books I had bought for her. Then I showed her The Epoch of Nanasaheb Peshwa. I was telling her all about the Marathas. That is when Venkat came by and started chit chatting. We had a good chat.

Lunch time

It had been only few hours since the humungous breakfast. Now it was time for food again. I was nervous. But Srinivas sister gave me a plate. There was curry, rice, sabzi, cucumbers, papad and payasam. I ate it all.

Playing in the meditation hall

By now we were getting late. So we picked up our bags and went down. There was a big meditation hall below the building. Pranad, Pradnya, Mahaksh and I played a game of tag and ice and water. We really bonded and started having fun.

Then came a taxi. We put our bags inside. Venkat, my dad, and all the kids fit inside the cab. Kumar, Guruswami and Srinivas decided to focus on the irumadis and come in a rickshaw. I think we got lost while going to the railway station. We kept going round and round.

My First Train Trip

The gang bonds

This was my first train journey ever. I was very excited. So was the gang. We played and bonded like we were brothers and sisters. We laughed, we played, we ate and we slept together.

Top berth Top berth

The moment we climbed up the train we were looking how to get up to the top berth. We found a ladder that led to the berth. We wanted to climb it now however we had not found our seats yet so we could not do so as it was not respectful to mess up somebody else’s seat.

Arm wrestling

We were getting bored with looking out of the window as we had not yet found our seats so we could not climb to the upper berth. So we decided to play an arm wrestling competition.

I won against Mahaksh and Pradnya. Mahaksh won over Pradnya. Wise, old Srinivas advised Mahaksh “Never fight against a girl. If you win then there is no credit because you won against a girl and if you loose well you lost against a girl.” 

Who knew younger siblings can be goofy

There two brothers whose names were  Pranad and Mahaksh. Mahaksh was the goofy one he kept annoying mister Pranad. He would climb over Pranad, whisper in his ear and slap him on the face. Mahaksh is 5 years younger then Pranad, both are a classic case of brothers. My dad cracked a joke saying this is your future with Vasu.

The fort wars

We finally found our cabins and started climbing our berths to build forts and play war. We built our forts with blankets, pillows and bedcovers. The whole day went in this and we had adequete play. 

The gang makes a plan

I jumped over to goofy Mahaksh’s fort and told him to come to our fort. He did so. I told him and Pradnya “Listen guys why dont we do the war and talk at night? For this, we must practice moving around quitly as we could be caught. We must stuff as much pillows and bed sheet bags as we can and act as if we are sleeping but we are actully awake! But we have to wait till our dads are asleep”

Everyone agreed to the plan.

We got to work. We stuffed empty bags of bed covers underneath our blankets. We hid our bags under neath our pillows. We wanted to make a fort and that to a good one. The whole point of this is to play for 2 hours, stay up late and have lots of fun without anyone telling us anything and there were none to disturb us.

Did it fail?

But when it was time to sleep our dads took away all of that stuff needed to make the forts. To make up for it I asked for an empty bag  but my dad said no to me.  Pradnya asked but her father who is Srinivas said no to her. So I climbed down, acted as if I was looking outside of the window, quietly picked up one bag and then climbed back to my fort. Mahaksh managed to save one bag too. We got ready for our plan to work after that.

 

But then goofy Mahaksh almost gave away the plan. He said that he was very sleepy to the dads. But it was obvious that he was not sleepy. I quickly rushed to his fort to tell him that he was giving away our plan. Instead he should just wait for the dads to naturally fall asleep. After hearing me Mahaksh said loudly, “actully I am not sleepy at all” I told him dont say anything about sleep the grownups will understand.

Nighty night

We went to bed at 8pm and started to whisper is each others ears and then acted as if to sleep.

The plan in action

As soon as the clock turned 9 o clock, I think my dad slept. One down. Two more dads to go. But Srinivas and Venkat stayed up quiet late till almost 11 o clock. Then they slept.

Sneakily Makaksh, Pradnya and I got up and grinned looking at each other. We got to work. First we needed more bags so I slipped down the fort and softly landed on my feet. I crept down and managed to get 4 bags. I first went to Mahaksh and gave him two and then climbed up my berth.

For 2 hours we were playing and going up and down.

I kept check of the time when I crept to my dads berth and peered into his phone. My dad opened his eyes and shouted, “Chucky go to sleep.” Oh no. I was caught. But luckily dad slept again.

The excuse

When it was 1: 30 am Srinivas woke up and caught us playing. He asked us why we were awake. We told him that we were feeling hot so he went to fix the AC meanwhile Mahaksh climbed over to our { Pradnyas and my fort } and we started to talk.

Then one of the dadies was waking up. It was my dad. He looked at us, made a face and then went to sleep again. Then at 1 :45 we went back to sleep. Mahaksh also was feeling cold so we got him down to Srinivas bed and Srinivas went to Mahakshes bed.

We then slept.

The accident that almost happened

At 2 am I woke up to see that Pradnya was at the edge of the bed. I came down and put my hand up to make sure that Pradnya does not fall down. I slept. 


Day 2

The Train Fun Continues

We woke up at 6am and so did Pradnya. I pushed her in and sat up to see that the pillow was about to fall on Guruswami. Thats a problem. So I snathched the pillow and put it on the side.  Srinivas woke up and told me to push Pradnya in so I did so but then Pradnya woke up and rolled to the edge. I told her to rollback so she did so.

I got up and started climbing up n down the fort. Pradnya too woke up and did the same. Pradnya even learned how to go down the berth by herself. Srinivas cracked a joke saying that there was daughter rise before sun rise. 

I started telling Pradnya some stories about the Marathas.

The fight for forts continues

Mahaksh woke up very late.

Boosted by last nights events we were ready to start the new day. This time we decided to keep a valuble thing in each fort. In our fort, Pradnya and I kept my book The Epoch of Nanasaheb Peshwa and my bindi packet. In his fort, Mahaksh put his rubiks cube. The goal was to snatch the valuable thing from each others fort.

In the 1st round I lost and in the next 2 rounds I and Pradnya won and then in the 4th round I got pushed down the top berth and I landed on my feet. I ran up yet again to continue the game. But a break was announced by Kumar. This was a very pleasent game and we all enjoyed it.

Breakfast

After that we had some milk and we had idli for breakfast.

The fight for forts gives way to sword fight

We all gathered in one top berth and started sword fighting. We rolled up the blanket bags into swords and used pillows as shields. All through out Mr serious Pranad was focusing on his video game. 

Lunch

We had rice, sambar, curd, payasam, some spiced veggies and channa. This was a very heavy meal. We even had a fried banana. Its texture was grainy as the sugars had come out while friying and steaming it. We even had some pineapple shiro which was extremely sweet and was made out of maida.

View from train

The view from the train was very beautiful and green. { Kerela is a very fertile state } There was green everywhere. Between every house there was a green patch.The BACKWATERS WERE MAJESTIC bodies of water that we viewed everywhere from the train. 

Venkat told me ” See the trees are running! ” I said NO they are not, we are moving very fast thats why it appears like that. He said but how do I know that we are moving if we were not moving and the trees were running then would’nt it look the same? I said yeah but the train is rumbling and sound is coming of it moving so that is why we are moving. He said but that still does’nt prove it.

The lack of sleep catches up

Pradnya was feeling tired after last nights masti Srinivas spotted that in a minute and told her to go have some rest so that she could do the trek with energy and not get tired out. Srinivas  told her that he wont be picking her up during the trek and she cant sleep on him during that period of time. Srinivas announced that if anyone wanted to sleep they could. Pradnya wanted to sleep so I told her story about Marathas.

Reaching Kottayam

Alighting from train

After reaching Kottayam station we stepped down the train. We put all the luggage right outside the railway station. Then once the bus arrived Pradnya and I picked the first seat. This seat had the best view. My father asked us to put on our seat belts. We agreed. 

Dharmashala

I thought we would be going on a long drive but we arrived at our first destination in 10 minutes. We reached Kottayam Brahmana Samooham. This was basically like a dharmashala but for Brahmins. Last time I stayed at a dharmashala was in a Jain dharmashala at Palitana. 

The dharmashala was spasios and cosy and it had room to fit tons of people. It was easy to go from one room to another.  You could see roads and shops from it. There was even a small temple inside it, a dining hall and medicated water which was pink in colour.

Getting ready

After resting and bathing we wore new clothes. I wore my new frock. My dad was struggling to wear his lungi. Srinivas guided him. Then we went to Guruswamis room where he did a small pooja of Swami Ayyappa. He gave us shero as prasad to eat.

Thirunakkara Temple

Temple visit

A quick walk from the dharmashala we reached our first temple. This temple is called Thirunakkara temple. It is 500 years old.

I did not have photos of the temple. So I took photos from Internet.

This temple was very big and beatiful I tell you. Its red and gold beauty was shining like any thing.

There was even a garden for the snakes and an enclosure of an elephant with a real elephant was inside. We learnt many things from the temple visit. For example: We learnt that the tall pillar inside the mandir complex was a way for the god to connect with it this pillar also shines light on the murti.

When we reached the temple we did a quick darshan to shiva. We did the same to the gaurdian deities. When walking around the temple we could not cross the gaurdians.

Srinivas told us stories

Right outside the temple was a majestic big tree. Sitting on the steps Srinivas told us a story.

He said inside us is a powerful Devi that will awaken some day. It is our duty to be prepared in body and mind for that day. If the Devi awakens before you build strength, then you can do destructive things.

One of his story was on mental strength. Once a man was in a forest. He sat next to a tree that could grant wishes. He wished for food and food appeared. He wished for rest and a bed appeared. He wished to settle down there and a house appeared. Worried he feared what if there are ghosts here and ghosts appeared. Scared he thought what if ghosts ate him and the ghosts ate him. Srinivas concluded his story that to connect with devi we need to build mental strength and control what we think.

Krishna temple

We crossed the road and entered a Krishna temple. The mood here was more jolly and fun. There were drums playing. We had Krishna’s favourite prasad which was rice ballls with coconut mixed inside it .

Returning to the Dharmashala :

When we returned to the Dharmshala we had a heavy dinner. For dinner we ate prasad, sambar, rice and curd this is the firsttime I had the pink medicated water. South Indian food is not just about idli, dosa and vada. It is also about currys, sabzis, rice and medicated water.

We got ready to sleep did masti with Mahaksh and then slept.


Day 3

The day had started with us quickly hushing and bathing so that we could move out of the dharmshala. Dad got into some fit with his dhothi. He was stuggling to wear it. Srinivas helped him and he figured it out. To spend time, I wound one of dad’s dhoti around myself like a sari. It is shown in the picture below. 

Morning pooja

We went to Guruswami’s room. I saw that the Ayyappa’s photo was beautifully covered with flowers. After praying, we got bananas as prasad. 


We went in our rooms, packed our bags and put them in the entrence hall. Pradnya and I stood down with the bags. We were guarding them. All the bags were moved down. We put them in the bus.

We split our bags into three groups. Bags that will stay in the bus. Bags that will be carried by us on the Sabarimala mountain. Bags that will be carried to the top by porters.

Breakfast

Like last time, Pradnya and I occupied the first seats. We had made a rule that if last time I was sitting on the window seat in the next drive Pradnya would occoupy it. There was great demand for that seat. Pradnya wanted to play a game but I told her that I was looking outside and we would play later on. 

After a long drive we went to a resturant. There I realized that all the resturants in Kerala have medicated red hot water. I neary burnt my toungue and throat when I had that water in one big gulp. Wise old Srinivas recommended that we eat Naivedyam dosa. These dosas are made from ghee instead of oil. This protects us from dosas cooked in bad quality oil. We then continued to the Dharmashastra temple in Erumely.

Erumely

The Drive to Erumely

Kerela looks like an extremely green Delhi. With lots of green hills and forests. The shops look old fashioned but the view is full of coconut and banana tree’s. The blue sky looked like was about to rain. It was getting dark very soon even though it was only 11 or 12 o ‘clock. The houses were simple and elegant. I imagined that there would be a nice courtyards inside these houses. Some houses were also buildings with 2 or 3 floors. I noticed there were many churches and mosques too.  

The Dharmshashtha Temple

We first reached the Dharmshashtha temple. There we did darshan to Ayyappa. The river Pamba was there too but this was a small Pamba, the main one is near Sabarimala. So we did not bathe here.


The Petta Sree Dharmshastha Temple

Next we dressed up like tribals by putting colours on our fore heads and cheeks. We even put a mask on our heads.  We walked from Dharmshastha to Petta Sree Dharmshastha. The hot sun was burning our feet. At Pethshastra we saw Ayyappa’s weapons. We did darshan and then on the streets we danced to celebrate Ayyappa’s tribal followers. 


The Vavar Mosque

Right opposite the Petta Sree Dharmshastha Temple was the Vavar Mosque. It was bigger than the temple. The disciple’s mosque was bigger than the god’s temple. I choose not to go there. 

Pamba Nadi

It was very hot. The dance made us all tired. So we had some lemon juice. Then we got onto the bus. This time dad sat next to the driver. Finally, we were heading to Pamba nadi.

The police stop our bus

Once we almost reached Pamba, the police stopped our bus. So Venkat went to the police station. Venkat spent a lot of time. Finally, Venkat got us permission to take our bus inside. Once we reached Pamba, it was raining heavily already. We rushed out of the bus with our bags and entered a restaurant.

Immediately, my eyes fell on the red Kerele banana. My dad bought few bananas for Pradnya and me. Thier texture was more chewy than the robusta bananas. I really enjoyed them.

Swimming in the Pamba

Next Srinivas and my dad took Pradnya and me to the Pamba river. For days, I was excited to swim in the Pamba. But when I reached the river, I got frozen out of fear. I love water but I am also scared of it. My dad could see worry on my face. My dad asked me what happened? Even Srinivas asked the same question and asked if I did not want to take a doobkie. If not I could  just washed my face, But still I was feeling worried and I thought In some way I like water and in another I dont. Then, my dad encouraged me in. 

Soon our Guruswami, an 85-year-old man, held my hand and got me inside and comfortable. He even played around in the water by takeing doobkies. It was almost as if he was doing squats. My fear vanished and I was happy again. 

While we were swimming in the Pamba the fish were biting us. This is called fish pedicure. Their bites did not pain. It felt as if my 11 month old sister was trying to bite without teeth. When we came out of the river our feet were extremely clean. With this massage we were ready for the trek.

Trekking up Sabarimala

We returned back to the restaurant. We wore our Irumadi’s on our heads and started the trek. We started in the evening, around 4:00 PM, and reached the top of Sabarimala around 8:00 or 9:00 PM.


During the trek, there were stones on the road that poked our legs. It was paining but I endured. Srinivas explained that life is like treking up Sabarimala and those stones are like troubles. You have to endure through it.

Inspired from this, I saw that there were two paths: The Steps that was easy peasy and the tough road was painful. I chose the tough path. While the stones were poking us we climbed very slowly. I imagined baby Ayyappa running up the mountain and looking back at his mother and saying ‘ Quickly come up!”

While we were all chit chatting and climbing, Mr. serious Pranad was extremely focused in his climb. He was not talking to anyone. His was enduring the pain of stones very well. I was extremely inspired looking at him. So I decided to mimic him.

There was a lot of interesting food during the trek. I especially enjoyed eating the watermelon.

Half way through, Srinivas stopped us and bought rice balls and asked us to through them as offering to the forest deities.

The path was surrounded by a dense forest with trees and creepers all about. We saw many trees. Some of those trees seemed like hundreds of years old.

Meanwhile Mahaksh groaned to Srinivas that he was so unlucky that he had to climb this mountain while the old people could sit in palquins. Srinivas told Mahaksh that instead of them being lucky he was lucky that he was getting to climb this mountain. These were interesting perspectives.

Luckily for us throughout the climb it was raining. It was a blessing that it was raining; without the rain, we would have been drenched in sweat instead of water that cooled us down. Half way through, we almost walked through a cloud. The air became moist and foggy! I felt energetic.

The Sabarimala Temple

When we reached the top, we walked over to the Sabarimala Temple. First came the 18 golden steps. We touched our hand to each step before walking up. Once we climbed up the 18 golden steps, we saw a big golden pillar with Ayyappa’s flag flying in the air. We were blessed to see Ayyappa. We saw all the Devas along with Ayyappa, like Malika Puram, Ganapati, and Nagaraja. There were many trees around Sabarimala and we loved the place.

We went to our dharmashala called Kailash Inn. There we changed out of our wet clothes and wore fresh ones. Then we started goofing around.

We got ready for another darshan. We wore our clothes for pooja and went out. However we could not do darshan.  One guy even told us that “The temple is closing better move out fast or else ” However we did not heed his advice and got stuck in to a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong line if we had heeded his advice it would have been better.

Turns out, it was Ayyappa’s birthday

There were many devotees as it was Ayyappa’s birthday the next day. So they closed the temple early. A massive elephant came. Ayyappa’s essence was transferred from the idol in the temple to another idol and that was put on the elephant. Ayyappa went to the forest for a hunt. 

We went to get prasadam, which was aravana. 

Dinner

By now, we were extremely tired. We went to a restaurant. We had Puttu and chana + paratha and chana. After dinner we walked back to the dharmshala. We were getting ready to sleep.

We goofed around and cracked jokes and then we lay down some mattresses to sleep on. Just when we were about to sleep Mahaksh heard crickets. So Venkat started searching for crickets. Venkat warned us that crickets can get into your ears. But dad and I were very tired. We decided to take the risk and sleep.


Day 4

Dad woke me up early. We quickly bathed with cold water and got ready. We then went to Guruswami’s room to help him open up all the irumadi’s and convert it into an offering that can be distributed to everyone. I was given the task to distribute the bhasma, kumkum, and chandan. I did my task well but in a moment of mindlessness I put  bhasma in the chandan. Wise old Srinivas came to the rescue. He fixed it. 

Next, dad and I did namaskar to Guruswami and gave him dakshina. This is a sign of gratitude that we give to Gurus. 

Darshan failure again

Once all the material was ready, Guruswami got all the kids ready and asked us to follow him for another darshan.

Guruswami already knew so many people. He took us to the office of the head priest. The head priest took our offerings and gave them to Ayyappa. But today too the police was not letting us take the next darshan.

Soon we realized the reason. It was Ayyappa’s birthday and Ayyappa was supposed to descend the mountain on an elephant and take a bath in the Pamba nadi. Hence the darshan was closed.

So we went to a spot where we had to break the coconuts. With all our might we threw the two coconuts from the irumadi.

The descent

After that Guruswami and Kumar went down via palquins. We had decided to wait for Mahaksh and Venkat at the coconut breaking spot but we decided to start the descend and wait there.

We saw a black monkey swinging along the branches.

Some of us get lost

Somehow Mahaksh and Venkat went ahead and we lost touch with them.

But at least we were together. We were Srinivas, Pradnya, mister serious Pranad, my dad, and me. But then suddenly mister serious Pranad disappeared. 

We asked Srinivas wether Pranad had a phone or not. Srinivas said yes but he was not sure wether Pranad was carrying it or not. Dad cracked a joke what if we ring on that number and what if Pranads mother picks up? Srinivas  said “That would be not advisable as she would scold me, she is my big sister.” I made a mental note.. elder sisters do scare younger siblings. Vasu look out.

We kept looking for Pranad but could not find him.

When we reached the foot of the mountain  Srinivas spotted Pranad with his younger brother Mahaksh. The story was revealed,  Pranad had met with his younger brother Mahaksh who asked him to race with the palquin of his father. Pranad did so and he came first at the foot of the  mountain. My dad cracked a joke, he said from now on your nick name is  BULLET IYER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The treacherous descend?

The desend was harder than the ascend. Because it was raining in the acsend while it was hot hot hot in the descend and gravity was pulling us down so we were going fast and due to that the stones were pricking us harder. We had to make sure that gravity does not pull us down so hard that we slip and roll down the rest of the mountain. Throughout the desend dads leg was paining horribly. He would limp and walk like 85 year old Guruswami. 

Once we were almost at the bottom, my foot started aching. Despite dads pain he picked me up and walked down. 

Ayaapaa came down for a bath

Once we were down, we saw that Ayyappa too had come down on his elephant. 

Uh oh

We walked to the Pamba. Once we reached the Pamba my dad set me down. we went to have a refreshing drink of orange juice.

I made a mistake; some of the orange juice spilled when I was given it, and it fell on Pradnya. She started crying as she was afraid the juice had spilled on her dress. She was feeling sticky. I felt very bad. We went down to the Pamba and cleaned  her up with a cloth.

Here we come!

We went on our way to a petrol pump station where everybody was to meet. We were just in time. Our fellow group of devotees were going to start the car. We quickly got in, and off we went to the place where the buses were parked. I noticed that one of our fellow devotees hair had become pink!

After the car ride, we sat in the tempo and then went off to Nilekal and Pala. Once at Pala, we stopped again at Ambadi restarant, had banana flower sabji, mango curry, payasam and curd.The banana flower sabzi was a little bitter and spicy and the mango curry was sweet and peppary. We then went off to Kochi.

Kochi 

When our bus stopped there, we—Srinivas, my father, Pradnya, and I—all four sat in a rickshaw and went to the metro station. At the metro station, we boarded the metro and set off to mg Road in Kochi. 

This was my first metro train ride. Both Pradnya and I were constantly looking at the view of the city from the metro. It was so high that we could see big views.

Once we reached there, we took another rickshaw to a  hotel. 

The Marine Inn

In the hotel, Pradnya and I played a small game of tag and then went up to our rooms in a lift. We played around and saw that there were sheets of paper in the room. We immeditly started to draw Ayyappa.

At the beach front

We set out to explore Kochi. We went to Bharat coffee house first. We had a gheeroast a paper roast and some coffee.

Next we went to the Kochi Port, saw the sea, and observed how deep it was. Pradnya and I were hoping that there would be a beach, where we could collect some shells. However that was not possible as the waters here were deep and it was a port.

My dad explained the difference between a port and a beach: A port is where sailors anchor thier ships. A beach is where there is sand and water on top of the sand so if sailors try to anchor thier ships in a beach they would get jammed.

We got some ice cream and started eating it with the salty breeze caressing our face. My dad got 3 boxes of grapes and was chilling with his favourite fruit. The grapes were there till the morning when he finished it up.

Spices

We went to a shop that was selling spices. We tried cinnemon and lots of different peppers. green. white. black. Dad bought some. The cinnemon was sweet in smell. The peppar was nutty and slightly spicy. It made mini explosions in my mouth. We even bought papad of different flavours like guava, mango and raw mango.

Gratitude

On our walk back, wise old Srinivas told us a story about gratitude. We learned that we should always be grateful for what we have, only then will we get whatever we want.

My dad told me that I should have been grateful for what I had, that ice cream, instead of asking for some chewing gum. I agreed and said yes.

Back at the hotel

After that, we went back to our rooms. 

At the hotel we realized that dads foot was aching because there was a thorn inside. Srinivas removed a thorn from my dads foot but however my dads foot was still aching. Dad dozed off.

To spend time, Srinivas taught me a memory game. He taught me how to memorize some lists and how to remember things like buying a brush, toothpaste, or a cup. 

Pradnya and I spent time drawing Ayyappa and then slept. In the middle of the night Pradnya kicked me extremely hard on my belly. Venkat is very street smart. He convinced the police to let our bus in , He found a nice hotel for us and he had contacts all over India. He knows where to go, what to do there and where to stay.


Day 5

I woke in the morning got ready and had breakfast. Then while the dadda’s were packing up I picked up my book and started to read. Dad tied my hair in a new hairstyle.

 My dad came from the hospital as he went out to check how his foot was doing. He came back with an injection and bandage.

Through out the trip, dad had promised me that he will buy jackfruit. But he did not. We do not get jackfruit in Delhi. I was sad. We went to a fruit shop and bought a bunch full of kerela long bananas. We ate the bananas. 

We reached airport. Because my dads leg was injured, we went through a fast security line. Then we had more bananas and then me and Pradnya played tag. Then we boarded the plane and said bye to Srinivas and Pradnya. 

We reached nana nanis house in Mumbai. My mother had bought jackfruit. I was grateful.

Then my nana nani asked me what I learned from this trip so I told them that I will go to Delhi, home and write my travel blog. Hence, I wrote this travel blog.