Sabi finally visits Sabarimala
One day in the year 2020 when I was 4 years old I was browsing through Amazon Prime Video for cartoons. Then I came across a cartoon which was about Swami Ayyappa. l admired him and watched it around 50 times. I made my nana nani watch it around 10 times.
For months now, Sabi has built a connection with Swami Ayyaapan, the revered deity of Sabarimala, Kerala. She first discovered him via a cartoon on ‘Amazon Prime Video.’ In the movie, a young boy Manikandan went on to become Swami Ayyaapa. Sabi immediately deeply related to him because:
- Manikandan was a young child, like Sabi.
- Manikandan was on a journey of learning and practiced martial arts with his guru. Sabi too is learning Seido Karate from her guru – Kiyoshi Hardeep.
- Manikandan did not have superhero powers. He was simply a dedicated human being who transformed into Swami Ayyappan through persistent effort.
It was not possible for us to take Sabi to Sabarimala pilgrimage. We took Sabi to an Ayyaapan temple (Sree Dharmasaastha Temple) in Saket, Delhi.
Sabi being Sabi, decided to wear her Gujarati Shreenathji clothes and carried a bow and arrow to the temple.
When I started school at 6, I wanted to buy a tiger and ride it to school. In the year 2022 our family went on a road trip. In that trip I sat in the car like Ayyappa with my seatbelt on. Like Swami Ayyappa I was wearing dhotis nearly every day in that road trip.
Since that day I wanted to go to Sabarimala and my dad promised me that he would arrange for it. Then finally my dad arranged for it in the year 2025 when I was almost 9 years old. There is a vrath that you have to do before going to Sabarimala. In that vrath you have to bathe with cold water, sleep on the floor, stop eating eggs, walk barefoot, and eat very simple food. We tried our best to do the vrath but we were not able to do it fully. I stopped eating eggs and secretly started bathing with cold water without telling my mom. I also stopped eating outside food, like Natural’s ice cream and California Burrito.
When the time came for the trip we had to pack our bags and go. This was the first trip in which I was going with my father but without my mother so we prepared for it as much as we could.
Preparation
- Hair: My hair is extremely curly, wavy and unmanageable. We decided to cut my hair to make it manageable and easy to comb and tie. My dad did not know how to tie and comb my hair, so I had to do it by myself. Then my mom oiled up my hair and packed it with oil so that it could at least stay for a few days. We carried all kinds of accessories like clips, comb and scrunchies.
- Clothes: It was a tradition of Kerela that girls should wear frocks. Hence, my mother bought some frocks for me. I am not very used to dresses so this is the first time I have had a collection of dresses! My dad bought some Lungi’s for himself too.
- Things that comforted me: I took my favourite blanket whose fragrance I love.
- Entertainment: I carried 2 books. Ones name is The Epoch Of Nanasaheb Peshwa and the second is The Unstoppable Us volume 2.
- Toiletries: We carried wet wipes, tissue paper, soap and towels as the washrooms were dirty and were not at all maintained.
I was about to finish the book The Epoch Of Nanasaheb Peshwa. To celebrate the completion of the book my parents took me to the temple Trumbakeshwar near Nashik. This temple was built by Nanasaheb Peshwa and is still there.
We then left Nashik and travelled to Mumbai where my nana nani live. We stayed nana nani’s house till we had to meet up with our gang. Then when the time came to leave we left and met with our gang.
Day 1
From nana nani house to Chembur
I woke up at 7:00 am and started to get ready to meet the Sabarimala gang. Dad and I left at 8:15 a.m. Then we travelled from Nana and Nani’s house to Chembur by taxi. It took us 2 hrs to reach Chembur.
My dad first told me to observe Mumbai. I saw how this city is not redeemable, there was waste everywhere, there were rugged roads, and the car was getting affected. The tall buildings but small houses packed many people into a small space and the more people living there meant more traffic. Next, I saw that most houses had a dish TV.
At Guruswami’s House
Introducing Guruswami
Soon we reached Guruswami’s house. I walked into his home and saw an old man with white hair, a scruffy beard, and body. He looked grumpy and sleepy. Guruswami is a senior who guides us and helps us do the pooja properly. He has gone to Sabrimala around 50 times, so he is the most experienced. Sabrimala used to be a dangerous place, so you had to have a senior person with you; that is why there is a Guruswami. There, I felt nervous as Guruswami could get grumpy, as I had once heard “don’t ask questions to old men, just blindly follow”.
He spoke very fast Hindi, so it is hard to understand him, but he keeps making hand gestures and keeps grunting so that makes it easier to understand what he is saying.
Guruswami’s temple was very beautiful! It is covered by photos of Bhagwan on both walls. It looked like it was used every day, and it was alive and lively. I had not seen so many deities in my life!
Guruswami’s wife was cleaning flowers. I went over to her and helped her.
Guruswami gets shocked
First, Guruswami asked us to put our bags in a corner. Next, we were asked to wash our feet and hands. Then Guruswami asked us for our malas. Dad told him that Srinivas was to bring the malas. Guruswami got shocked, and he stuck his tongue out and put his hand to it. Ideally, we should have worn the malas at the start of the vratam.
He led us to his temple. He took the mala hanging from the photo of Ayyappa and gave it to dad and sang a mantra. He repeated the same with me, but with a mala from Krishna. He had been praying to these malas for the last six months. Hence, these malas were auspicious.
Guruswami serves us a feast for a breakfast
I thought we had to fast as whenever Jains do religious things they fast. But Guruswami had other plans. He served us a humongous breakfast with idlis, sambar, vada, rice, chutney, payasam, and shiro.
Guruswami asked me, “Coffee peyega?”. I replied, “nahi mein coffee nahi peti”. So Guruswami said, “toh pani peyo”
Preparing for the initiation pooja
Soon, Srinivas’s sister and niece arrived. They were very nice to me.
Together, we started preparing for the pooja. Coconuts have 3 eyes at the bottom. I knew it from building monkey masks.
We often go to Carnatic Cafe, where they serve ice cream in coconut shells. Sabi started collecting the shells and tried to turn them into “Monkey Masks” wall hangings. However, it was difficult to collect enough shells, as she couldn’t simply buy ice cream for the shells alone. Additionally, carving each mask took 6-8 hours. As a result, the masks were not very practical.
Guruswami would find the one soft eye, and then he would ask us to pierce a hole in that eye and pour their water out in a bowl. We made sure no water was left and corked the hole in the coconut.
Next, I sat with Srinivas’s niece, and we started writing Om on the irumadi bags. The Irumadi is the bag of offerings that we give to Ayyapa. The front part is for Ayyappa, and the back is for you.
The gang arrives
Slowly, steadily, the gang arrived. First came elder brother Pranad. He was strict and focused. Following him came goofy Mahaksh. He had a bony structure. The environment truly turned goofy with his presence. I looked at my dad and smiled. Finally, Srinivas came with his daughter Pradnya. She looked adorable yet timid, like my younger sister Vasu. Looking at the gang, I knew we would have a fun time!
Along with Srinivas and my dad, two more dads came. One was Pranad’s father, Kumar. The second was Mahakshs dad Venkat.
The initiation pooja
By now, we were already getting late. So Guruswami grunted something, and everyone started preparing for the pooja.
One by one, Guruswami did pooja for each person. He sang some mantras, and then we had to pour ghee inside the coconut we had hollowed out. Then we put the cork back and put it inside our irumadi bag, pour rice inside another bag which was smaller, put that small bag inside the irumadi bag with 2 coconuts at the back side of the bag.
Srinivas, Srinivas’s sister, and dad all put 3 handfuls of rice in my bag. This was usually only for family members, and they treated me like a family member. That was very nice of them.
As the pooja happened for everyone, we had to stand nearby and sing Swamiye Sharanam Ayyappa. During this time, Pradnya and I stood next to each other.
This is the mantra of the offerings that we spoke:
ashtadasham mahasaaram sasthru darshana dayakam
Vidhitham shudham utkrishtam Sannidhaanam namamyaham
Manasa karmana Vaacha Shraddhaya bhaktya Jagatguru
uktasya deva karyaartham puraayan Kapilagrutham
Bhootanatha Sadhananda Sarva Bhutha dayabara
Raksha Raksha maha baaho Shastre tubhyam namo namaha
The Marathas make an entry
Immediately after the pooja, I took Pradnya outside and gave her the books I had bought for her. Then I showed her The Epoch of Nanasaheb Peshwa. I was telling her all about the Marathas. That is when Venkat came by and started chit-chatting. We had a good chat.
Lunch time
It had been only a few hours since the humongous breakfast. Now it was time for food again. I was nervous. But Srinivas’ sister gave me a plate. There was curry, rice, sabzi, cucumbers, papad, and payasam. I ate it all.
Playing in the meditation hall
By now, we were getting late. So we picked up our bags and went down. There was a big meditation hall below the building. Pranad, Pradnya, Mahaksh, and I played a game of tag and ice and water. We really bonded and started having fun.
Then came a taxi. We put our bags inside. Venkat, my dad, and all the kids fit inside the cab. Kumar, Guruswami and Srinivas decided to focus on the irumadis and come in a rickshaw. I think we got lost while going to the railway station. We kept going round and round.
My First Train Trip
The gang bonds
This was my first train journey ever. I was very excited. So was the gang. We played and bonded like we were brothers and sisters. We laughed, we played, we ate, and we slept together.
Top berth Top berth
The moment we climbed onto the train, we were looking for a way to get up to the top berth. We found a ladder that led to the berth. We wanted to climb it now, however, we had not found our seats yet, so we could not do so as it was not respectful to mess up somebody else’s seat.
Arm wrestling
We were getting bored with looking out of the window, as we had not yet found our seats, so we could not climb to the upper berth. So we decided to play an arm wrestling competition.
I won against Mahaksh and Pradnya. Mahaksh won over Pradnya. Wise, old Srinivas advised Mahaksh, “Never fight against a girl. If you win, then there is no credit because you won against a girl, and if you lose well, you lost against a girl.”
Who knew younger siblings could be goofy
There are two brothers whose names are Pranad and Mahaksh. Mahaksh was the goofy one, he kept annoying Mr. Pranad. He would climb over Pranad, whisper in his ear, and say See, there is a dancing dwarf, then slap him on the face. Mahaksh is 5 years younger than Pranad, both are a classic case of brothers. My dad cracked a joke, saying, ” This is your future with Vasu.”
The Fort Wars
We finally found our cabins and started climbing our berths to build forts and play war. We built our forts with blankets, pillows, and bedcovers. The whole day went in this, and we had adequate play.
The gang makes a plan
I jumped over to Goofy Mahaksh’s fort and told him to come to our fort. He did so. I told him and Pradnya, “Listen, guys, why don’t we do the war and talk at night? For this, we must practice moving around quietly, as we could be caught. We must stuff as many pillows and bed sheet bags as we can and act as if we are sleeping, but we are actually awake! But we have to wait till our dads are asleep.”
Everyone agreed to the plan.
We got to work. We stuffed empty bags of bed covers underneath our blankets. We hid our bags underneath our pillows. We wanted to make a fort and that to a good one. The whole point of this is to play for 2 hours, stay up late, and have lots of fun without anyone telling us anything, and there were none to disturb us.
Did it fail?
But when it was time to sleep, our dads took away all of the stuff needed to make the forts. To make up for it, I asked for an empty bag, but my dad said no me. Pradnya asked her father, Srinivas, said no to her. So I climbed down, acted as if I was looking outside the window, quietly picked up one bag, and then climbed back to my fort. Mahaksh managed to save one bag too. We got ready for our plan to work after that.
But then goofy Mahaksh almost gave away the plan. He said that he was very sleepy to the dads. But it was obvious that he was not sleepy. I quickly rushed to his fort to tell him that he was giving away our plan. Instead, he should just wait for the dads to naturally fall asleep. After hearing me, Mahaksh said loudly, “Actually I am not sleepy at all.” I told him don’t say anything about sleep, the grown-ups will understand.
Nighty night
We went to bed at 8 pm and started to whisper in each other’s ears and then acted as if to sleep.
The plan in action
As soon as the clock turned 9 o’clock, I think my dad fell asleep. One down. Two more dads to go. But Srinivas and Venkat stayed up quite late till almost 11 o’clock. Then they slept.
Sneakily, Makaksh, Pradnya, and I got up and grinned, looking at each other. We got to work. First, we needed more bags, so I slipped down the fort and softly landed on my feet. I crept down and managed to get 4 bags. I first went to Mahaksh and gave him tw,o and then climbed up my berth.
For 2 hours, we were playing and going up and down.
I kept a check of the time when I crept to my dad’s berth and peered into his phone. My dad opened his eyes and shouted, “Chucky, go to sleep.” Oh no. I was caught. But luckily, Dad slept again.
The excuse
When it was 1: 30 am, Srinivas woke up and caught us playing. He asked us why we were awake. We told him that we were feeling hot, so he went to fix the AC. Meanwhile, Mahaksh climbed over to our { Pradnyas and my fort } and we started to talk.
Then one of the daddies was waking up. It was my dad. He looked at us, made a face, and then went to sleep again. Then at 1: 45 we went back to sleep. Mahaksh was also feeling cold, so we got him down to Srinivas’ bed, and Srinivas went to Mahaksh’s bed.
We then slept.
The accident that almost happened
At 2 am, I woke up to see that Pradnya was at the edge of the bed. I came down and put my hand up to make sure that Pradnya does not fall down. I slept.
Day 2
The Train Fun Continues
We woke up at 6 am, and so did Pradnya. I pushed her in and sat up to see that the pillow was about to fall on Guruswami. That’s a problem. So I snatched the pillow and put it on the side. Srinivas woke up and told me to push Pradnya in, so I did so, but then Pradnya woke up and rolled to the edge. I told her to roll back, so she did so.
I got up and started climbing up and down the fort. Pradnya too woke up and did the same. Pradnya even learned how to get off the berth by herself. Srinivas cracked a joke saying that there was the daughters rose before the sun rose.
I started telling Pradnya some stories about the Marathas.
The fight for forts continues
Mahaksh woke up very late.
Boosted by last night’s events, we were ready to start the new day. This time, we decided to keep a valuable thing in each fort. In our fort, Pradnya and I kept my boo,k The Epoch of Nanasaheb Peshwa and my bindi packet. In his fort, Mahaksh put his Rubik’s cube. The goal was to snatch the valuable thing from each other’s fort.
In the 1st round, I lost,t and in the next 2 rounds I and Pradnya won. Then in the 4th round, I got pushed down the top berth, and I landed on my feet. I ran up yet again to continue the game. But a break was announced by Kumar. This was a very pleasant game and we all enjoyed it.
Breakfast
After that we had some milk and we had idlis for breakfast.
The fight for forts gives way to a sword fight
We all gathered in one top berth and started sword fighting. We rolled up the blanket bags into swords and used pillows as shields. All throughout, Mr serious Pranad was focusing on his video game.
Lunch
We had rice, sambar, curd, payasam, some spiced veggies, and channa. This was a very heavy meal. We even had a fried banana. Its texture was grainy as the sugars had come out while frying and steaming it. We even had some pineapple shiro, which was extremely sweet and was made out of maida.
View from train
The view from the train was very beautiful and green. {Kerala is a very fertile state. There was green everywhere. Between every house, there was a green patch. The BACKWATERS WERE MAJESTIC bodies of water that we viewed everywhere from the train.
Venkat told me, ” See, the trees are running! ” I said NO, they are not, we are moving very fast, that’s why it appears like that. He said, but how do I know that we are moving if we were not moving, and the trees were running, then wouldn’t it look the same? I said yeah, but the train is rumbling and sound is coming from it moving so that is why we are moving. He sai,d but that still doesn’t prove it.
The lack of sleep catches up
Pradnya was feeling tired after last night’s masti. Srinivas spotted that in a minute and told her to go have some rest so that she could do the trek with energy and not get tired out. Srinivas told her that he won’t be picking her up during the trek, and she can’t sleep on him during that period of time. Srinivas announced that if anyone wanted to sleep, they could. Pradnya wanted to sleep, so I told her a story about the Marathas.
Reaching Kottayam
Alighting from the train
After reaching Kottayam station, we stepped off the train. We put all the luggage right outside the railway station. Then, once the bus arrived, Pradnya and I picked the first seat. This seat had the best view. My father asked us to put on our seat belts. We agreed.
Dharmashala
I thought we would be going on a long drive, but we arrived at our first destination in 10 minutes. We reached Kottayam Brahmana Samooham. This was basically like a dharmashala but for Brahmins. The last time I stayed at a dharmashala was in a Jain dharmashala at Palitana.
The dharmashala was spacious and cosy, and it had room to fit tons of people. It was easy to go from one room to another. You could see the roads and shops from it. There was even a small temple inside it, a dining hall, and medicated water which was pink in colour.
Getting ready
After resting and bathing, we wore new clothes. I wore my new frock. My dad was struggling to wear his lungi. Srinivas guided him. Then we went to Guruswami’s room where he did a small pooja of Swami Ayyappa. He gave us shiro as prasad to eat.
Thirunakkara Temple
Temple visit
A quick walk from the dharmashala, we reached our first temple. This temple is called Thirunakkara Temple. It is 500 years old.
I did not have photos of the temple. So I took photos from the Internet.
This temple was very big and beautiful, I tell you. Its red and gold beauty was shining like anything.
There was even a garden for the snakes and an enclosure for an elephant, with a real elephant inside. We learnt many things from the temple visit. For example, we learnt that the tall pillar inside the mandir complex was a way for the god to connect with it; this pillar also shines light on the murti.
When we reached the temple, we did a quick darshan of Shiva. We did the same to the guardian deities. When walking around the temple, we could not cross the guardians.
Srinivas told us stories
Right outside the temple was a majestic big tree. Sitting on the steps, Srinivas told us a story.
He said inside us is a powerful Devi that will awaken someday. It is our duty to be prepared in body and mind for that day. If the Devi awakens before you build strength, then you can do destructive things.
One of his stories was on mental strength. Once a man was in a forest. He sat next to a tree that could grant wishes. He wished for food, and food appeared. He wished for rest, and a bed appeared. He wished to settle down there, and a house appeared. Worried, he feared that if there were ghosts here, and ghosts appear. Scared, he thought, what if ghosts ate him and the ghosts ate him. Srinivas concluded his story that to connect with Devi, we need to build mental strength and control what we think.
Krishna temple
We crossed the road and entered a Krishna temple. The mood here was more jolly and fun. There were drums playing. We had Krishna’s favourite prasad, which was rice balls with coconut mixed inside.
Returning to the Dharmashala :
When we returned to the Dharmshala, we had a heavy dinner. For dinner, we ate prasad, sambar, rice, and curd. This is the first time I’ve had the pink medicated water. South Indian food is not just about idlis, dosas, and vadas. It is also about curries, sabzis, rice, and medicated water.
We got ready to sleep, did masti with Mahaksh, and then slept.
Day 3
The day had started with us quickly hushing and bathing so that we could move out of the dharmshala. Dad got into a fit with his dhothi. He was struggling to wear it. Srinivas helped him, and he figured it out. To spend time, I wound one of Dad’s dhotis around myself like a sari. It is shown in the picture below.
Morning pooja
We went to Guruswami’s room. I saw that the Ayyappa’s photo was beautifully covered with flowers. After praying, we got bananas as prasad.
We went to our rooms, packed our bags, and put them in the entrance hall. Pradnya and I stood down with the bags. We were guarding them. All the bags were moved down. We put them in the bus.
We split our bags into three groups. Bags that will stay in the bus. Bags that will be carried by us on the Sabarimala mountain. Bags that will be carried to the top by porters.
Breakfast
Like last time, Pradnya and I occupied the first seats. We had made a rule that if last time I was sitting on the window seat in the next drive, Pradnya would occupy it. There was great demand for that seat. Pradnya wanted to play a game, but I told her that I was looking outside and we would play later on.
After a long drive, we went to a restaurant. There, I realized that all the restaurants in Kerala have medicated red hot water. I nearly burnt my tongue and throat when I had that water in one big gulp. Wise old Srinivas recommended that we eat Naivedyam dosa. These dosas are made from ghee instead of oil. This protects us from dosas cooked in bad-quality oil. We then continued to the Dharmashastra temple in Erumely.
Erumely
The Drive to Erumely
Kerala looks like an extremely green Delhi. With lots of green hills and forests. The shops look old-fashioned, but the view is full of coconut and banana trees. The blue sky looked like it was about to rain. It was getting dark very soon, even though it was only 11 or 12 o’clock. The houses were simple and elegant. I imagined that there would be a nice courtyard inside these houses. Some houses were also built with 2 or 3 floors. I noticed there were many churches and mosques too.
The Dharmshashtha Temple
We first reached the Dharmshashtha temple. There we did darshan of Ayyappa. The river Pamba was there too, but this was a small Pamba; the main one is near Sabarimala. So we did not bathe here.
The Petta Sree Dharmshastha Temple
Next, we dressed up like tribals by putting colours on our foreheads and cheeks. We even put a mask on our heads. We walked from Dharmshastha to Petta Sree Dharmshastha. The hot sun was burning our feet. At Pethshastra, we saw Ayyappa’s weapons. We did darshan and then on the streets we danced to celebrate Ayyappa’s tribal followers.
Right opposite the Petta Sree Dharmshastha Temple was the Vavar Mosque. It was bigger than the temple. The disciple’s mosque was bigger than the god’s temple. I choose not to go there.
Pamba Nadi
It was very hot. The dance made us all tired. So we had some lemon juice. Then we got onto the bus. This time, Dad sat next to the driver. Finally, we were heading to Pamba Nadi.
The police stopped our bus
Once we had almost reached Pamba, the police stopped our bus. So Venkat went to the police station. Venkat spent a lot of time. Finally, Venkat got us permission to take our bus inside. Once we reached Pamba, it was raining heavily already. We rushed out of the bus with our bags and entered a restaurant.
Immediately, my eyes fell on the red Kerele banana. My dad bought a few bananas for Pradnya and me. Their texture was more chewy than the robusta bananas. I really enjoyed them.
Swimming in the Pamba
Next, Srinivas and my dad took Pradnya and me to the Pamba River. For days, I was excited to swim in the Pamba. But when I reached the river, I froze out of fear. I love water, but I am also scared of it. My dad could see worry on my face. My dad asked me what happened. Even Srinivas asked the same question and asked if I did not want to take a doobkie. If not, I could just wash my face, but still I was feeling worried, and I thought in some way I like water, and in another way I don’t. Then, my dad encouraged me.
Soon, our Guruswami, an 85-year-old man, held my hand and got me inside and comfortable. He even played around in the water by taking doobkies. It was almost as if he were doing squats. My fear vanished, and I was happy again.
While we were swimming in the Pamba, the fish were biting us. This is called fish pedicure. Their bites did not hurt. It felt as if my 11-month-old sister was trying to bite without teeth. When we came out of the river, our feet were extremely clean. With this massage we were ready for the trek.
Trekking up Sabarimala
We returned to the restaurant. We wore our Irumadi’s on our heads and started the trek. We started in the evening, around 4:00 PM, and reached the top of Sabarimala around 8:00 or 9:00 PM.
During the trek, there were stones on the road that poked our legs. It was painful, but I endured. Srinivas explained that life is like trekking up Sabarimala, and those stones are like troubles. You have to endure it.
Inspired by this, I saw that there were two paths: the easy-peasy Steps, and the tough road was painful. I chose the tough path. While the stones were poking us we climbed very slowly. I imagined baby Ayyappa running up the mountain and looking back at his mother and saying ‘ Quickly come up!”
While we were all chit-chatting and climbing, Mr. Serious Pranad was extremely focused on his climb. He was not talking to anyone. He was enduring the pain of stones very well. I was extremely inspired by looking at him. So I decided to mimic him.
There was a lot of interesting food during the trek. I especially enjoyed eating the watermelon.
Halfway through, Srinivas stopped us and bought rice balls and asked us to throw them as an offering to the forest deities.
The path was surrounded by a dense forest with trees and creepers all about. We saw many trees. Some of those trees seemed like hundreds of years old.
Meanwhile, Mahaksh groaned to Srinivas that he was so unlucky that he had to climb this mountain while the old people could sit in palanquins. Srinivas told Mahaksh that instead of them being lucky, he was lucky that he was getting to climb this mountain. These were interesting perspectives.
Luckily for us, throughout the climb it was raining. It was a blessing that it was raining; without the rain, we would have been drenched in sweat instead of water that cooled us down. Halfway through, we almost walked through a cloud. The air became moist and foggy! I felt energetic.
The Sabarimala Temple
When we reached the top, we walked over to the Sabarimala Temple. First came the 18 golden steps. We touched our hands to each step before walking up. Once we climbed up the 18 golden steps, we saw a big golden pillar with Ayyappa’s flag flying in the air. We were blessed to see Ayyappa. We saw all the Devas along with Ayyappa, like Malika Puram, Ganapati, and Nagaraja. There were many trees around Sabarimala, and we loved the place.
We went to our dharmashala called Kailash Inn. There, we changed out of our wet clothes and wore fresh ones. Then we started goofing around.
We got ready for another darshan. We wore our clothes for pooja and went out. However, we could not do darshan. One guy even told us that “The temple is closing, better move out fast or else. ” However, we did not heed his advice and got stuck in a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong line If we had heeded his advice, it would have been better.
Turns out, it was Ayyappa’s birthday
There were many devotees, as it was Ayyappa’s birthday the next day. So they closed the temple early. A massive elephant came. Ayyappa’s essence was transferred from the idol in the temple to another ido,l and that was put on the elephant. Ayyappa went to the forest for a hunt.
We went to get prasadam, which was aravana.
Dinner
By now, we were extremely tired. We went to a restaurant. We had Puttu and chana + paratha and chana. After dinner, we walked back to the dharmshala. We were getting ready to sleep.
We goofed around and cracked jokes, and then we lay down some mattresses to sleep on. Just when we were about to sleep, Mahaksh heard crickets. So Venkat started searching for crickets. Venkat warned us that crickets can get into your ears. But Dad and I were very tired. We decided to take the risk and sleep.
Day 4
Dad woke me up early. We quickly bathed with cold water and got ready. We then went to Guruswami’s room to help him open up all the irumadi’s and convert them into an offering that can be distributed to everyone. I was given the task to distribute the bhasma, kumkum, and chandan. I did my task well, but in a moment of mindlessness, I put bhasma in the chandan. Wise old Srinivas came to the rescue. He fixed it.
Next, Dad and I did namaskar to Guruswami and gave him dakshina. This is a sign of gratitude that we give to the Gurus.
Darshan failure again
Once all the material was ready, Guruswami got all the kids ready and asked us to follow him for another darshan.
Guruswami already knew so many people. He took us to the office of the head priest. The head priest took our offerings and gave them to Ayyappa. But today too, the police were not letting us take the next darshan.
Soon, we realized the reason. It was Ayyappa’s birthday, and Ayyappa was supposed to descend the mountain on an elephant and take a bath in the Pamba nadi. Hence, the darshan was closed.
So we went to a spot where we had to break the coconuts. With all our might, we threw the two coconuts from the irumadi.
The descent
After that, Guruswami and Kumar went down via palanquins. We had decided to wait for Mahaksh and Venkat at the coconut breaking spot, but we decided to start the descent and wait there.
We saw a black monkey swinging along the branches.
Some of us get lost
Somehow, Mahaksh and Venkat went ahead, and we lost touch with them.
But at least we were together. We were Srinivas, Pradnya, Mister Serious Pranad, my dad, and I. But then, suddenly, mister serious Pranad disappeared.
We asked Srinivas whether Pranad had a phone or not. Srinivas said yes, but he was not sure whether Pranad was carrying it or not. Dad cracked a joke. What if we ring that number, and what if Pranad’s mother picks up? Srinivas said, “That would not be advisable as she would scold me, she is my big sister.” I made a mental note. Elder sisters do scare younger siblings. Vasu, look out.
We kept looking for Pranad but could not find him.
When we reached the foot of the mountain, Srinivas spotted Pranad with his younger brother Mahaksh. The story was revealed, Pranad had met with his younger brother Mahaksh, who asked him to race with the palanquin of his father. Pranad did so, and he came first at the foot of the mountain. My dad cracked a joke, he said “From now on, your nickname is BULLET IYER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
The treacherous descend?
The desend was harder than the ascend. Because it was raining in the acsend while it was hot hot hot in the descend and gravity was pulling us down so we were going fast and due to that the stones were pricking us harder. We had to make sure that gravity does not pull us down so hard that we slip and roll down the rest of the mountain. Throughout the desend dads leg was paining horribly. He would limp and walk like 85 year old Guruswami.
Once we were almost at the bottom, my foot started aching. Despite dads pain he picked me up and walked down.
Ayaapaa came down for a bath
Once we were down, we saw that Ayyappa too had come down on his elephant.
Uh oh
We walked to the Pamba. Once we reached the Pamba my dad set me down. we went to have a refreshing drink of orange juice.
I made a mistake; some of the orange juice spilled when I was given it, and it fell on Pradnya. She started crying as she was afraid the juice had spilled on her dress. She was feeling sticky. I felt very bad. We went down to the Pamba and cleaned her up with a cloth.
Here we come!
We went on our way to a petrol pump station where everybody was to meet. We were just in time. Our fellow group of devotees were going to start the car. We quickly got in, and off we went to the place where the buses were parked. I noticed that one of our fellow devotees hair had become pink!
After the car ride, we sat in the tempo and then went off to Nilekal and Pala. Once at Pala, we stopped again at Ambadi restarant, had banana flower sabji, mango curry, payasam and curd.The banana flower sabzi was a little bitter and spicy and the mango curry was sweet and peppary. We then went off to Kochi.
Kochi
When our bus stopped there, we—Srinivas, my father, Pradnya, and I—all four sat in a rickshaw and went to the metro station. At the metro station, we boarded the metro and set off to mg Road in Kochi.
This was my first metro train ride. Both Pradnya and I were constantly looking at the view of the city from the metro. It was so high that we could see big views.
Once we reached there, we took another rickshaw to a hotel.
The Marine Inn
In the hotel, Pradnya and I played a small game of tag and then went up to our rooms in a lift. We played around and saw that there were sheets of paper in the room. We immeditly started to draw Ayyappa.
At the beach front
We set out to explore Kochi. We went to Bharat coffee house first. We had a gheeroast a paper roast and some coffee.
Next we went to the Kochi Port, saw the sea, and observed how deep it was. Pradnya and I were hoping that there would be a beach, where we could collect some shells. However that was not possible as the waters here were deep and it was a port.
My dad explained the difference between a port and a beach: A port is where sailors anchor thier ships. A beach is where there is sand and water on top of the sand so if sailors try to anchor thier ships in a beach they would get jammed.
We got some ice cream and started eating it with the salty breeze caressing our face. My dad got 3 boxes of grapes and was chilling with his favourite fruit. The grapes were there till the morning when he finished it up.
Spices
We went to a shop that was selling spices. We tried cinnemon and lots of different peppers. green. white. black. Dad bought some. The cinnemon was sweet in smell. The peppar was nutty and slightly spicy. It made mini explosions in my mouth. We even bought papad of different flavours like guava, mango and raw mango.
Gratitude
On our walk back, wise old Srinivas told us a story about gratitude. We learned that we should always be grateful for what we have, only then will we get whatever we want.
My dad told me that I should have been grateful for what I had, that ice cream, instead of asking for some chewing gum. I agreed and said yes.
Back at the hotel
After that, we went back to our rooms.
At the hotel we realized that dads foot was aching because there was a thorn inside. Srinivas removed a thorn from my dads foot but however my dads foot was still aching. Dad dozed off.
To spend time, Srinivas taught me a memory game. He taught me how to memorize some lists and how to remember things like buying a brush, toothpaste, or a cup.
Pradnya and I spent time drawing Ayyappa and then slept. In the middle of the night Pradnya kicked me extremely hard on my belly. Venkat is very street smart. He convinced the police to let our bus in , He found a nice hotel for us and he had contacts all over India. He knows where to go, what to do there and where to stay.
Day 5
I woke in the morning got ready and had breakfast. Then while the dadda’s were packing up I picked up my book and started to read. Dad tied my hair in a new hairstyle.
My dad came from the hospital as he went out to check how his foot was doing. He came back with an injection and bandage.
Through out the trip, dad had promised me that he will buy jackfruit. But he did not. We do not get jackfruit in Delhi. I was sad. We went to a fruit shop and bought a bunch full of kerela long bananas. We ate the bananas.
We reached airport. Because my dads leg was injured, we went through a fast security line. Then we had more bananas and then me and Pradnya played tag. Then we boarded the plane and said bye to Srinivas and Pradnya.
We reached nana nanis house in Mumbai. My mother had bought jackfruit. I was grateful.
Then my nana nani asked me what I learned from this trip so I told them that I will go to Delhi, home and write my travel blog. Hence, I wrote this travel blog.